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Tom & Jerry

Also known as Tom and Jerry, Tom & Jerry Punch, Jerry Thomas Tom & Jerry

A warm, rich holiday drink made by folding hot milk and rum into a spiced egg batter.

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Tom & Jerry

Overview

What this drink is like

The first sip hits you with warm, frothy milk and the sweet bite of rum. The middle is all baking spice and toasted sugar from the batter. It finishes thick and warming, leaving a lingering sweetness on your tongue.

Who will like it

This is for people who love eggnog but want something warmer, spicier, and a bit more dessert-like.

When to drink

Serve this when the weather turns freezing and you need something to wrap your hands around after shoveling snow.

Ordering tip

Ask the bartender if they make their batter in-house; the canned stuff tastes flat and overly sweet compared to fresh.

Ice: NoneTemp: WarmCost: $3–$6Glass: MugBatch-friendlyMake aheadHome bar friendly

Flavor

Taste profile

Drinking a Tom & Jerry is like drinking a warm, boozy cloud. The hot milk and egg batter give it a thick, frothy body that coats your mouth, while the cloves and cinnamon hit you right away. The rum adds a warm, slightly funky kick underneath all that sugar and dairy. It is heavy, sweet, and deeply comforting, with a lingering spice that keeps it from tasting like plain warm milk.

Finish: The finish is long and warming, with toasted sugar and clove lingering on the back of your tongue after the liquid is gone.

Primary tastes

sweetcreamyspicy

Secondary

nuttyearthy

Aroma

baking spicewarm milkrum funknutmeg
  • Sweetnessvery sweet

    The sugar and spiced batter make this taste like a liquid dessert.

  • Strengthmoderate strength

    The rum is noticeable but the large volume of hot milk softens the alcohol punch.

  • Creaminessextremely creamy

    Hot milk and whipped egg batter make this one of the richest, thickest drinks in the cocktail canon.

  • Complexitymoderately complex

    The spice blend and rum add layers, but the core of the drink is straightforwardly sweet and rich.

Recipe

Make it at home

Built · Mug · equal parts on Dark Rum. Jamaican or Demerara rum works best for depth and funk

Before you start

Separate your eggs first and let them come to room temperature so the whites whip up easier. Heat your milk and water in a saucepan while you make the batter.

Ingredients

  • Dark RumBase SpiritSplit with Cognac if you want a richer, fruitier profile60ml
  • CognacoptionalBase SpiritTraditional to split the base; use VS or VSOP30ml
  • Egg YolksDairySeparated from the whites for the batter base2
  • Egg WhitesDairyWhipped separately to give the drink its signature foam cap2
  • Superfine SugarSyrupDissolves easier than granulated2 tablespoons
  • Ground ClovesOtherGo light; cloves can easily overpower the mix2 dashes
  • Ground CinnamonOtherStandard baking cinnamon2 dashes
  • Ground AllspiceOtherAdds a rounded, warm pepper note1 dash
  • Hot MilkDairyWhole milk, heated until steaming but not boiling180ml
  • Hot WaterOtherUsed to thin the batter and help it dissolve60ml
  • NutmegGarnishFreshly grated over the top1 dash

Garnish: Freshly grated nutmeg

Tools

  • Mixing bowl · Mixing

    For beating the egg yolks and sugar into a batter, and separately whipping the egg whites

    At home: Any medium-sized bowl

  • Whisk · Mixing

    To beat the yolks and sugar until thick, and whip the whites to stiff peaks

    At home: Hand mixer or stand mixer

  • Saucepan · Other

    To heat the milk and water until steaming hot

    At home: Microwave-safe container

  • Mug · Serving

    To serve the hot drink and keep it warm

    At home: Any thick-walled heatproof glass or ceramic cup

  • Bar spoon · Mixing

    To stir the hot milk and rum into the batter in the mug

    At home: Long teaspoon

  • Jigger · Measuring

    To measure the rum and hot liquids

    At home: Measuring cup or shot glass

Steps

  1. 1

    Drop the two egg yolks into your mixing bowl and add the superfine sugar, cloves, cinnamon, and allspice. Whisk them together vigorously for about a minute until the mix turns pale yellow and looks thick and paste-like.

    ~60s

    !Leaving lumps of sugar in the yolk mixture because you didn't whisk long enough.

  2. 2

    In a second, clean bowl, pour in the two egg whites. Whip them hard with your whisk until they hit stiff peaks, meaning when you lift the whisk, the peaks stand straight up without flopping over.

    ~90s

    !Getting any yolk or fat in the whites, which stops them from whipping up.

  3. 3

    Scoop the stiff egg whites into the yolk batter. Fold them together gently with your whisk or a spatula, scraping from the bottom up, until you see no more streaks of yellow. This airy batter is what makes the drink fluffy.

    ~30s

    !Stirring too hard and knocking all the air out of the egg whites.

  4. 4

    Put two heaping tablespoons of your finished batter into a heavy mug. Pour the hot water over the batter and stir with your bar spoon until the batter dissolves into a smooth, spiced liquid.

    !Pouring cold water over the batter, which makes it clump instead of dissolve.

  5. 5

    Pour the 60ml of dark rum into the mug, or split it 30ml rum and 30ml Cognac if you want a richer drink. Give it a quick stir to mix the spirit into the spiced liquid.

    !Adding the rum before the hot water, which can cook the batter unevenly.

  6. 6

    Slowly pour the 180ml of steaming hot milk into the mug while stirring constantly. The drink will swell up with a thick foam cap on top as the hot milk hits the batter.

    !Pouring the milk too fast without stirring, which breaks the foam and leaves the drink flat.

  7. 7

    Grate fresh nutmeg right over the foam cap on top of the drink. Serve it right away while it is still piping hot and the foam is thick.

    !Using pre-ground nutmeg, which tastes dusty and loses its oily aroma.

Serve

Serve in a heavy ceramic mug or thick-walled glass to keep the drink hot. The foam cap should sit high above the rim, dusted with nutmeg.

Variations

Ingredient substitutions

Each row shows what you can swap in place of an original ingredient, and how the drink changes.

Swap options for Dark Rum

  • Dark RumCognac
    Match
    Common availability

    Dark RumCognac: Makes the drink richer and fruitier with less funky bite.

  • Dark RumBourbon Whiskey
    Match
    Common availability

    Dark RumBourbon Whiskey: Adds a caramel and vanilla sweetness instead of rum funk.

Swap options for Superfine Sugar

  • Superfine SugarDemerara Sugar
    Match
    Common availability

    Superfine SugarDemerara Sugar: Gives a deeper, molasses-like sweetness to the batter.

Related

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Eggnog

Similar cocktail

Eggnog

Eggnog is served cold with unheated milk, while Tom & Jerry is served hot and uses a pre-made spiced batter.

Match

Tom & Jerry drinks hotter and spicier with a fluffier foam top, whereas cold Eggnog is heavier and creamier in the glass.

In common: Holiday drink, Egg-based, Dairy-heavy, Spiced

Ingredients

Both share

Dark Rum, Cognac, Egg Yolks, Egg Whites, Superfine Sugar, Ground Nutmeg

Only in Tom & Jerry

Ground Cloves, Ground Cinnamon, Ground Allspice, Hot Water

Only in Eggnog

Cold Whole Milk, Heavy Cream

Tom & Jerry uses hot water to dissolve a spiced batter, while Eggnog uses cold milk and cream directly without a batter step.

Flavor

Shared flavors

Rich dairy body, Sweet vanilla and egg notes, Nutmeg finish

How Eggnog differs

Hot vs. cold, Thicker foam cap, Stronger baking spice presence

View recipe & details →

Hot Buttered Rum

Similar cocktail

Hot Buttered Rum

Hot Buttered Rum uses a butter-spice-sugar batter instead of an egg-spice-sugar batter.

Match

Tom & Jerry feels lighter and frothier on the tongue, while Hot Buttered Rum sits heavier with a slick, buttery coating.

In common: Hot cocktail, Winter drink, Batter-based, Spiced

Ingredients

Both share

Dark Rum, Hot Water, Ground Cloves, Ground Cinnamon, Ground Nutmeg

Only in Tom & Jerry

Egg Yolks, Egg Whites, Hot Milk

Only in Hot Buttered Rum

Unsalted Butter, Brown Sugar

Tom & Jerry gets its body from eggs and milk, while Hot Buttered Rum relies on butter and brown sugar for richness.

Flavor

Shared flavors

Warm and comforting, Baking spice backbone, Rum-driven heat

How Hot Buttered Rum differs

Frothy vs. buttery, Egg richness vs. fat richness, Lighter body vs. heavier mouthfeel

View recipe & details →

History

Origin

The drink is widely credited to Jerry Thomas, who published the recipe in his 1862 bartending guide, though he claimed he learned it from a man in New Orleans. Thomas insisted the drink was not named after him, though the coincidence remains a popular piece of bar lore.

Creator
Jerry Thomas
Era
1820s
Confidence

The exact spice ratios vary widely across historical recipes; Jerry Thomas's original used a simpler spice blend than modern versions.

Practical

Tips & pitfalls

What works at home and what to skip when making this drink.

Tips

Worth knowing before you pour

  • Make a large batch of batter and keep it in the fridge for up to a week.
  • Use a hand mixer for the egg whites to save your arm from cramping.
  • Heat the mug with hot water before building so the drink stays warm longer.
  • Grate the nutmeg right over the foam so the oils land on the surface.

Avoid

Common mistakes

  • Do not let the milk boil, or it will scald and ruin the flavor.
  • Do not skip whipping the egg whites, or you lose the signature foam.
  • Do not use pre-ground nutmeg, which tastes flat and dusty.